I live in Victoria, British Columbia. I have three sons, almost
all grown up, life is always interesting and sometimes even challenging. We always seem to come out with a smile no matter
what hits us.
Raised in the Christian Reformed Church in Southern Ontario till I was 10. We joined a Group
called "The Move" and moved to a commune in British Columbia in 1972. I lived there for only a few short years when I realized
I had to leave or die. I have spent the rest of my life learning to be me.
I was married once, it was a mistake other than the fact that I have three awesome young men
that came out of it. I have been in two other serious relationships where I learned a lot about love, respect, and commitment.
I am not sure why I am alone, but maybe it's best to just learn to love being alone. I do enjoy life.
Someone recently told me that I am the king of "Shit Happens" I
suppose eventually one just stops trying to fix everything.
I am a writer, I have always tried to be a good man, father and friend. I love the ocean and
will never give it up again. I've put down roots in Victoria, am building a new future and life. I know what my expectations
are and will accept nothing less, ever again.